>>34195296
>TTRPG and competitive vidya
I actually know a couple who have been together for 3 years who met here on 4chan (on /v/ not /soc/) so genuinely if you keep meeting people in your special interest communities then you're bound to run into a guy who's into what you're into. Of course you do run into the problem of whether or not they're compatible with you, and unfortunately the communities we reside in can be full of unredeemable weirdos.

I would say continue looking around in the discords or forums of things you're into, and eventually I think you'll find a guy who's into what you are and isn't a total creep. The main thing is to keep trying, you're not always gonna catch a fish at the pond but you can't stop trying entirely.