>>58110241
Because most women get told thats what youre supposed to value in life for whatever reason is to be chosen by some dude.

After I realized I was aroace and didn't give a real shit about 3DPD guys as far as romance went (I have male friends still), life became way better, and I just stopped forcing myself to act in a way that didn't come naturally to me.

I genuinely don't want someone else constantly taking up my space, or having to make decisions with them and compromise on stuff.
That truly sounds suffocating and miserable.