nah if anything being a fujo is counter performative, with the word itself being an incriminating term. i'm talking about ships like these where the guy is a flabby old man. i understand the appeal in up to 40-50 yo. man like the yakuza in famiresu iko but 60s to 70s literal old man is just weird, like the iwtv or conclave fandom. there's no way you're attracted to that. it feels like a counter to shotacon