Am I the only one who thinks that improving oneself in order to get a relationship is just a humiliation ritual?

>work out so that you can be with someone who can't climb stairs without taking a break.
>Have money and be financially responsible so that you can be with someone who takes loans to go to music festivals and uses a "buy now pay later" app for makeup.
>Learn to cook to be with someone who stacks taco bell boxes in her apartment.
>learn social skills so that you can be with someone who says "uhh" between every word.
>get a hobby and become interesting so you can be with someone who has Netflix and pizza as her life's calling.

>sexy outfit easter egg/unlockable
>it's some boomer shit like bunny suit, nurse clothes, string bikini, or police uniform.