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>>33494249
Here is my advice as someone who was almost a 21 year old virgin, 300lbs before 22, then slept around a LOT.

First off, you're likely gonna have an ego issue. You're gonna have to recognize a lot of your beliefs don't work help you. Then you're gonna need to listen to the following two books
>Alchemy by Rory Sutherland
>Psychocybernetics

Then you need to do some basics if not already done
>Lifting routine / eating cleaner
>Get into therapy

>BUT ANON THERAPY IS JEWISH AND BOOKS ARE FOR FAGGOTS AND -
ego

>BUT ANON I DO THOSE ALREADY AN-
ok good, just checking

Then you need to figure out what your values are, what do you? You want a trad wife? Are you willing to sleep around before hand? Are you handsome, are you intelligent? What are we working with here

Ultimately, anyone can have success. I view it in a Jungian way, people view other archetypically - if you meet a girl and shes a blonde surfer girl with a fat ass, you will describe her as such in your group chat before she becomes a real person. You are viewing the archetype of her, you need to develope a fuckable archetype. This is you, dialed up to 12. You dipped in you sauce. What this is not is
>being buff
>trying to be andrew tate
If youre a fucking nerd, GREAT, lets make you a very fuckable one
Not everyone needs to be buff, look at matty matheson, look at pete davidson, there is a WILDLY fuckable version of you out there

idk about dating coach but i do know about getting over anxiety, mindset and authentic development

You probably dont need a lot of help, you probably need some basic therapy, a better outlook, some cool ass friends and to put yourself out there with some self love nigga

i believe in you, if you have any questions about my schizo rant lmk

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