>>507915027
the ultimate point of self improvement is to implement it as a normal habit rather than a lifestyle
if you make self improvement your whole personality (like zoomers nowadays do), you will fuck up your real personality and thus an obnoxious incel
This is what makes Chad a chad, he know's he's a chad because other people let him know he's a chad (directly (praising him, compliments, etc) or indirectly (flirting, hints, bro attitude, etc)). He doesn't waste his time thinking (or worse, selfdeception that) he's a Chad