>>33913530
>Talking to a therapist, she asks me about my sexual history
>she
Anon...I...
Seriously Anon, The Rapy is 95% of the time a money grift.
When I was in college, and still had an interest in psychology to help people, there were only 2 other guys I'd met who were taking psych classes.
The majority of them were women who either wanted to "Fix" themselves, were looking for justification to blame their parents as to why they were so SUCK, or because it's low-effort pseudo-science that they can charge $100-200 for each 1 hour session.

If you feel you HAVE to have someone to bounce your thoughts off of, either get a MALE psychologist, or find a free group meeting.
Short of that, if you can, the best "Therapy" in the world is taking LONG walks,(2 hours minimum,) with no distractions and a will to think about the issue you are having.
That said, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Sex isn't what it gets built up to be, and while it can be very good, many people after their first time say: "That's it? That's all?"
Pair bonding and reproduction is really all it's good for, but because of biological imperative hardwiring, and all the bio-chems involved, and a morass of midwits who make it their identity, Sex gets built up to this mythical thing for those who haven't had it yet.

>>33913583
Yeah, DO this. and
>>33913611
>>33913822
> A FEW are good, and MOST are bad.
FIFY
Psychotherapy really only exploded in the early 80s when it became a kind of status thing amongst Boomers(Yuppies) to humblebrag.
Now, like every other profession that had merit at one time and paid well, it's FLOODED with hacks and incompetents.