Last weekend I ruined a first date because we started arguing about Israel. So my advice to any of you is to... not do that. It wasn't my fault. It's like a black hole, once the topic is brought up and a disagreement is even slightly sensed, you have crossed the event horizon and now have to get to the bottom of both of your positions. It's impossible to move forward and talk about how the nice the food is or the events of the day or whatever when you're unsure if your date is supportive of palestinian genocide or is a nazi.
I know I'm retarded btw