I've started asking trans girls after a few dates if I like the girl whether I can give her head that way if she gets angry or ghosts I dodge a bullet, if she says yes or even politely declines I know she is someone who can love me and be attracted to me so that's a girl worth trying to build something serious with. It's rough and it's a stupid question but I'm so tired.
Do any of you guys have similar methods for sorting through all the noise now that their numbers have increased so much?