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>but I always kind of took solace in the fact that I could ask her to leave
That's reasonable, but you are a man. My ex wasn't that bad, in fact she forgave me for terrible things quite easily, but she was controlling in smaller ways. She once had a panic attack because I refused to eat with both knife and fork when we were (and I'm not making this up for meme value) eating a Charlie Bighams ready meal. She said it felt like I didn't view us eating dinner together as the same level of special as us eating with her family.
>Now I live alone. Yep
It sucks, but it is better than being tied to someone that isn't as into you as you are them.