Having balls is more important than having your dreams come true.

Learn to read emotions rather than putting an overly simplistic label on it. When a young woman is upset, yes there are some women in this world who when they are upset wouldn't give two shits if you blew your brains out with a shotgun, BUT REALISTICALLY SPEAKING it could be she feels like she feels you are acting like an annoying child, it could be she had a stressful day, it could be she needs to recharge, or it could be she is trying to fix a mental issue you have. Point is don't jump to conclusions.