>free food
Your money pays for it
>get to grab her ass or boobs any time of day
lol
>tells you she wants to suck your penis

You haven't been in a longterm relationship with a Woman in a while, have you? You get into a relationship because you love them and want to take on the world with them. If your wife is completely submissive, your children will not be in a healthy environment. Your wife and you need to be on the same wavelength to raise your children. Sure, you may not agree on everything, sometimes your Wife makes dinner, sometimes you're on grill duty (only fags hate this). But you both want the best for your children and would kill literally anyone to secure a proper life for them. I hope you meet a wonderful Woman and have a long, love-filled life with her.