>>49819563
At first I thought it'd be much easier to find decent men into touhou than it is women, though I thought about it and while I'm a guy so apart from saying I'm none of the following
>pedo, cuck, secret faggot or some other common undesirable
(unless "lolicon" is really an undesirable) I can't really make any comment on myself, I will say that it's even more of a 50/50 if you can find someone decent. Even if you assumed I would be a perfectly fine boyfriend, I'm a complete celibate reculuse who has no interest in a relationship to begin with. On top of that I absolutely hate kids and would never want them, so that basically makes it a 50/50 of a 50/50; about 25% of decent men you could find would that fit neither of those descriptions. And that shit gets even narrower if you specify that they have to be a touhoufag on top of that.
So really you won the fucking lottery finding one that fits all of those (which considering that that's also what ZUN is shouldn't be too uncommon but y'know)