There are levels to being an incel!!!

First you have the normie, a socialable creature.

Second you have the failed normie, I believe ALL gay people are inherently fake normies. They believe in sex and friends as a power when in reality they'll never be viewed on the same level as real normies due to homophobic factors.

Third is the incel. Someone who has given up on themselves, but if inspired to could become a failed normie or even a regular normie.

Fourth is the trucel. Someone who's inherent personality or factors outside their control simply will not let then have a healthy relationship. I fall under this category.