>What is sex like?
i liked it for a while, but i'm not sure anymore. i think i'm just broken but when it was good, it was amazing. becoming one with someone you love and making each other feel good is a really special feeling. i used to go without eating for days (i didn't have anything to clean with) just so that my husband and i could have sex.
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
i'm mtf and lost my virginity to a girl from my high school for what was essentially a shits-and-giggles sort of thing. i liked the experience of, like, being a united body at the time, but i regretted it almost immediately the next morning and i hate myself for it to this day. after that (some time later) i had sex with a friend (mtf) because she wanted to and while it was mostly okay in the moment i regret that, as well. it was only when i got together with the man who is now my husband that i think everything really clicked for me. i guess that doesn't really have anything to do with my gender or orientation but i don't know if either of those things had a real impact on anything. sex sort of just happened to me; it wasn't something i was seeking deliberately.
>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
i'm pretty vanilla. i'm too embarrassed and ashamed to divulge the one fetish i think i really have. it makes me feel bad.
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
internet, i guess, or close friends? i don't generally talk about it so i guess i don't know.