Thread 40958140

What is sex like?
How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with

>>40958140 (OP)
>What is sex like?
sin. arousal feels disgusting

>>40958140 (OP)

>What is sex like?
Very great, especially if you love your partner

>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?
Being male and bisexual, i pretty much started very young to have sex with friends of mine, before even having my first relationship

>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
Online, thanks to the Internet, 4chan, furry fandom and just dating apps i'd say

>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
I don't think i have one in particular, i'm open to do many things and quite frankly, i'm always trying to let the door open to curiosity and creativity under the bedsheets

>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
Personally i don't know, but i guess i would recommend people that you feel a little bit close with, and if you don't have those, i'm sure you could figure out how to make friends with benefits around here

>>40958140 (OP)
im not asexual since i do experience sexual attraction but i've never had sex and i never will. i guess a part of what causes me to be almost repulsed by sex is gender dysphoria but i also just dont see the appeal of it. i'd much rather just cuddle

>>40958140 (OP)

Gonna give you some honest answers as a 33 year old long time sex haver as both genders and orientations:

>What is sex like?

Amazing, joy at feeling accepted, euphoria at discovering new things. Gives you energy, makes life feel worth it.

>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?

Gender - for me my female gender (I'm MtF) was correlated with being submissive, being penetrated, and seeking to put my partner's pleasure first. Although I still have a dominant side that comes out with even more submissive (transs women)

Orientation- I'm bisexual, and a submissive bottom with some ability to switch. It took until 30 to figure out gender and orientation completely and i am still figuring stuff out. I have a higher than average sex drive and it's a primary motivator for me in life.

>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?

I knew from a young age i wanted to primarily be with men, be a girl and be submissive, but i knew I also liked girls. However I thought I had to be a straight male and be dominant so I tried to force it. After I tried dating three different women and still wanting to bottom for men and have a BF, I realized i needed to stop dating women and work on myself.

>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?

Primarily MEF and related concepts, also CNC/BDSM.

>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff WITH?

making discussion threads that are provocative and imaginative and talking to people, and getting their discords is one way. Trans servers on discord is another way. Reddit can also be a good entry point into fetishes, as can the red boards, so can Twitter and AO3.

>>40958140 (OP)
>What is sex like?
I've never had it
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
It's never existed and I found out through porn exclusively
>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
Being loved and held and having my humanity affirmed
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
Here and r9k are the only places I know of that have incel trannies that want to kill themselves like me

>>40959044
you deserve real love

>What is sex like?
i liked it for a while, but i'm not sure anymore. i think i'm just broken but when it was good, it was amazing. becoming one with someone you love and making each other feel good is a really special feeling. i used to go without eating for days (i didn't have anything to clean with) just so that my husband and i could have sex.
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
i'm mtf and lost my virginity to a girl from my high school for what was essentially a shits-and-giggles sort of thing. i liked the experience of, like, being a united body at the time, but i regretted it almost immediately the next morning and i hate myself for it to this day. after that (some time later) i had sex with a friend (mtf) because she wanted to and while it was mostly okay in the moment i regret that, as well. it was only when i got together with the man who is now my husband that i think everything really clicked for me. i guess that doesn't really have anything to do with my gender or orientation but i don't know if either of those things had a real impact on anything. sex sort of just happened to me; it wasn't something i was seeking deliberately.
>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
i'm pretty vanilla. i'm too embarrassed and ashamed to divulge the one fetish i think i really have. it makes me feel bad.
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
internet, i guess, or close friends? i don't generally talk about it so i guess i don't know.

>>40958140 (OP)
>What is sex like?
v fun when i like the other person enough

>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?
made it very (too?) accessible. pre-transition i was a virgin and i suddenly found that i could have sex with many of my friends so i was a whore for a bit, i realised that, while fun, its not fulfilling without a deeper connection

>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
trail and error

>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
violence unto me. the worse i feel the better. or the complete opposite, i want to be treated with love and care or brutalised

>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
idk sowwy

>What is sex like?
I don't remember.
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?
Don't have a sex life anymore.
>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
I haven't.
What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
BDSM, anal, watersports, sounding, the usual stuff.
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
No idea.