You guys do realize if you were to actually seek out God with your full heart and genuine intention to get to know Him, He would help you better deal with whatever's going on in your lives and heads, right?

But you would rather just try to find some way in your own power that you think you can somehow "figure out" by yourself when you don't even know or are actually good at anything else. It's like, how do you hope to magically just find a way to make everything better by yourself when you yourself aren't enough to figure out or do literally anything else?

Go and seek God out and He will help you beyond anything you could have ever imagined of thought of on your own.