>>33501138
I have a condition called vaginismus and it makes sex feel extremely painful like a cheese grater is ripping my insides.
>we NEED to do this NOW
This sounds so stressful. I’m sorry. My partner is being accommodating but I’ve seen him have moments of frustration where he is very clearly impatient with me “figuring things out.” It almost makes it harder that he is being patient, because then I feel like I’m the villain for wanting to end things.
>When she kisses me sensually and puts her hands in certain areas, it gets me turned on
It sounds like you have a lot of sensual attraction, which a lot of asexuals separate from sexual attraction. For me, it’s similar. I simply don’t want to have anything to do with genitals at all.

Just remember picrel anon. Hug