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This reinforces my original intuition that this doesn't really have anything to do with being your 'authentic self' and more to do with you just don't know how to filter and be polite and not react. You do sound unfriendly and unpleasant from this post alone. I'm not saying this to be mean, just as a point of fact. Nobody likes a knowitall, nobody likes someone who goes around saying 'um ackchually'. That's a reddit attitude that you constantly have to be correct and point out why and how other people are doing something wrong. People don't need to share your beliefs any more than you need to share theirs. If you don't enjoy your friend's company that's on you for hanging around, not them. You don't 'call out' people with unrequited unasked for advice.

All you need to do is nothing. It is trite advice, but it is true, not everything other people do requires a reaction learn to sit back and observe. Though it sounds like you could stand to learn some manners and social cues as well (autism?) People are going to be inefficient and wrong a lot (you are too). That's hardly a reason to get upset. And it's rude and very reddit to take every opportunity to point it out.