>>33571565
Sexual status resembles employment status. If you're a jobless loser and try to find a job nobody wants your ass.
But if you already have a job and go on exploratory interviews and make it clear that you love your job and would only consider being lured away for a 10% raise because you feel you could handle more important responsibilities, everyone wants to hire you.

Same thing with women. If you aren’t getting any, you give off defeated loser vibes and women look at you and assume the reason you have no woman is because you aren’t good enough for one.