>>33572153
I'm gonna give you advice, and you're probably going to dismiss it outright, in which case - you're gay and die alone, if you read it however and take it into consideration, good on you
So I was an indoors hermit, without anything, living alone on my own, subsisting on student loans, going to school and playing Vidya and dying in my room for any piece of outside interaction while keeping myself indoors and anxious af and afraid to go out. I snapped and decided to change it
To make a really long story short, I discovered meetup.com, went to 100+ meetups since March of this year, I started off with hiking because it allowed me to ease into the socialization and slowly went to more social events.
Then, earlier this month, I realized I want a girlfriend already and although meeting people is nice and I made some friends - I need to lock in, because I've been on 6 different dating apps for 10 months and got zero (0) dates. I deleted everything.
Now I dance bachata, and I joined a choir. Both of which are girl majority activities.
A girl in my bachata class has already noticed me, and I feel so comfortable around her which came completely naturally which is unlike me, that I'm going to ask her for a walk in next week's lesson. I also went to a bachata dance party and it was freaking amazing.
I highly recommend dancing, but I understand that if you're still shut in, it's extremely scary, so walk my path.
For the record, I talked to myself for 1.5 hours before the Bachata class, JUST to get myself to go, it was a proper existential anxious avoidant crisis. But I did it because there is literally no better time than now.
