>>82276672
The difference is that they weren't doing it for that reason but for its own sake.
It's significant in two ways:
>If you actually need to alter your life for the goal of finding love then you're a genetic dead end loser, normal people don't need to do thaat
>You won't enjoy it, because you're doing it for that purpose.
The latter in particular is important to remember, this
>Wow, just go join some club to meet people to finally date
Is a slog and will make you unhappy if you don't enjoy the club for its own sake. People don't join a sports club for dating, that's just an extra added benefit that may or may not happen; they join them because they enjoy the sport so they find their time their valuable even if they don't end up dating there, because they will end up dating somewhere else anyway. You firstly have far lower chance sto succeed and find someone there than the average person, because you're a genetic dead end freak, and secondly you don't actually enjoy it, so it's just a depressing experience for you.