>>42457701
Well, what did you mean?

>>42457726
>I fetishise the act of severely limiting my partner's body autonomy
There are women who openly prefer their man having a mutilated penis, which in the US is done to newborns, and this is fine and dandy to most people. Bodily autonomy as it applies to pregnancy is a meme. Infanticide isn't healthcare. Rape is rarely the reason.

>in fact I fetishise it more the more of an impact it has on her life
Sure. Having children is a big change.

>I fetishise the idea that she'd be totally and unquestionably happy with it
Yes, somewhat. I've touched the other side a little.

>I fetishise the way it's innately something I impose on her and a fundamental aspect of the asymmetry in our dynamic
Yes.

>that's totally because I care about her
Yes.

>At least the other preg fetishists I know admit it's tied to their maledom kink
Sorry, by "maledom kink" do you mean what was the norm for most of human history?

>instead of trying to spin it as wholesome while consistently writing fics about absentee fathers.
There's a difference between leaving the father vague and writing him as absent entirely. I dislike shipping for the most part, and there's usually no reason to ruin a story for someone who prefers one pairing over the other.

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