>>18526933
I'm gonna assume OCBD means "oxford collar button down". Fuck, just call it an oxford shirt like anybody who isn't a complete autist.
>>18526943
Loafers. Oxfords or derbies if you don't hate laces.

Failing those get slip on sneakers with a high toe box that look kind of loafer-like. Old Navy has them for like $15 during a sale. Something like picrel but a smaller sole.