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>>or just flat out flirt with me. What gives?

That is how women are -- same thing happened to me.

Women are not really .. people . They are cows , herd mentality , their brain is wired for being a social animal .
So you are a man in a happy relationship, you are pre - approved by some other woman , so there must be something about you , and this other woman is dating you so she was able to defend dating you to her friends. So the flirty girl will steal you.

Imagine men as a used car, in a world where you can only buy a used car , from lying shyster car salesmen. -- Your neighbor does all the leg work and finds a good used car . Now do you listen to all the thought and careful examination he did before buying ?? Do you do the work that he did to find a good one ??
>>Nah, you just steal his car. Because that is how women are.