Am I crazy for hating my ex's current partner? Whenever they talk they're always so fucking pathetic talking about how much trauma they have and how they're disabled and a fucking failure of a human being. That'd be fine if that was all but, they also are fucking terrible with their finances despite being 9 years older than me which makes me see them as even more pathetic as a person. Like I get it you have issues, but they're so damn pathetic I can't even see them as an adult but instead as a fucking toddler who unfortunately has taxpayer money wasted to support them.