For a lot of men, being submissive is a coping mechanism. They know they cannot live up to the masculine ideal so they come up with an opposite "ideal" of a weak pitiful man and imagine that some women are actually attracted to that

Why can't there be non white women who want to dominate white guys
>tfw no nonwhite domme gf to make you adapt to their culture
>tfw no nonwhite domme gf to make you learn their language
>tfw no nonwhite domme gf to make
>you move and live in her country