>>33763110
After some self assessment I believe I may be an uncomfortable person to be around.
I think the biggest piece of evidence is that the managers I worked for at my last job always felt the need to lie to me or avoid answering me at all. Weather it was for why I didn’t get a promotion or just a complaint I was being given about being too loud. She always averted her gaze when we were clocking in. The moment I thought about transferring instead of waiting on a promotion, she jumped on it and any pretense of friendliness disappeared because all of it was lie I was too stupid to see.
Other people got a clear answer. Other people got chewed out. With me, it was as if she was afraid of me.
>what does this have to do with /htgwg/
This seams to happen a lot when I cold and warm approaches.
>The girl will scream after I say hi.
>I’ll try to be friendly back with someone who started talking to me, and then they pull away.
>a friend who I get along with just fine and never tried to date will have a mutual suggest the idea, and she will look at me with disgust.
So I’m big, scary, and/or ugly. And it has nothing to do with a personality defect if I get these reactions without a sentence in.
What’s the right thing to do in this situation?
I want better companionship, but even pursuing it just makes me this creepy and scary guy.
Do I just become an isolated hermit and cease as much interaction as possible? Or will that make me an even worse person?
Do I continue trying to talk to women?
They seem the most scared of me. But I also don’t do it that much. It’s like cycles where I try for a few months and give up for a few month.