Had this argument with a souls fan and told him I don't think souls games are that special and not that fun to play and it went like this:
>You didn't play them
I played DS1&3 and ER
>You didn't beat it
I beat them
>You're bad at them
I beat most of DS1 bosses first try
>You didn't finish them
I finished them all
>You didn't play them long enough
I have 100+ hours in DS3 and beat it 8 times
>You don't get it

Why are they like this?