In my 20s I had a long term relationship. Loved the girl, but she wanted an open relationship. I couldn't fucking do it. We broke up over it and she found some cuck I guess. Mentally I just couldn't do it. In my 30s I met my wife, so I'm really happy how things turned out. But ya I'd never cheat. It's crazy to think I'll never get to touch another (different) pair of bobs again, but it's definitely worth it for me to have just mental and emotional stability and love.