>>82310418
>hi anon
hello!!1!
>>82310418
>I've been struggling with loneliness
many just like you here anon, me included. there's some company in the struggle.
>i hope it all ends to return to my computer
im very familiar with this feeling anon, but i think it's good you've realized that it's not enough for you. it's important to have relationships irl too.
>>82310418
>I can't ever think of anything to say back
i'm no expert in making friends myself, though i can manage to hold conversations. it's a bit hard to explain since a lot of the things i do, i just, do them not really thinking about it much. whenever someone's talking with you, try to ask yourself some questions, such as "what's something they said that i don't like, so that i can offer a different view/opinion?" "is there anything they said that i can connect with another topic that i like or they like?" "is there anything about what they said that i could ask them to expand upon?". some examples would be, lets say im talking with someone that mentions liking a type of food. you could ask what they like about the food, why, you could mention your own favourite food, or a similar one they might like, you could connect the topic of food to the hobby of cooking, if thats what you're interested in. i think the key for having a good conversation is asking (smart) questions. people love answering to questions (and talking about themselves...) about them or what they like. to make friends, you just need to do this consistently with the same person/group of people. it's easier said than done yes, it's hard to build up the confidence to talk with others, but keep in mind you got nothing to lose and everything to gain. worst that can happen is that you and the other person don't click, and go on with your lives. best that could happen, is you make a friend!