>>76547490
>Wanting to have friends in your 30s
But why anon? I used to have tons of friends. They always wanted me to buy them food. And smoke up all my weed. And drink my booze. And steal my magic cards. Try and get me to break up with my gf while they were trying to fuck her behind my back.
You should be Red Foreman maxing. My coworker wanted to be friends and even told me he considered me a friend and when I didn't say anything tried to walk it back to "work buddy". I don't see any benefit in that and a lot of downsides.