i feel sort of similarly, i guess. it isn't so much that i do not feel i project enough femininity, but more that i have no personal sense of gender and i like being a woman but i would really rather just be androgynous, i think. after i get srs i'm seriously thinking about cutting my hair to about a quarter of its current length (or going totally bald!!!!!!!!! i have always wanted to try) and getting top surgery
i have the same dilemma, currently, though; i can't just call myself nonbinary because you can't pass as that and i don't want to tell everyone all the time that i'm enby and have to ask them to use neuter pronouns. i think i like feminine pronouns anyways