Thread 40735053

I love what hrt does for me but I don't feel fem enough to think im actually a woman. However being non binary is just fucking cringe and I want to be able to get a job so I just let people call me a woman

>>40735053 (OP)
Anon unlocks the true meaning of being nonbinary without even realizing it

>>40735053 (OP)
>i don't feel fem enough to think im actually a woman
how does that make you feel? i feel the same way but i don't think im enby i just think im self hating, because the fact i don't think im actually a woman makes me miserable

>>40735053 (OP)
I've come to terms with being nonbinary but its difficult because people will naturally put you in one of two categories
It can also seem like youre doing a copout of being a trans woman so you cant win but its about what you feel inside or something.

>>40735111
I'm not sure I follow

>>40735128
Idk if it's just brainworms but I feel like I don't give fem enough vibes like a lot of trans women do

>>40735197
At the most I know I don't want to be called anything masculine at all

>>40735281
>i feel like i don't give fem enough vibes like a lot of trans women do
and how do you feel about that?

>>40735053 (OP)
You don't have to say nonbinary. You can make up whatever word you want and run with it, so long as you can stand on business.

that's because a trans woman is a homophobic gay man who doesn't understand gender nonconformity

>>40735053 (OP)
this for me but i already have a job so im stuck in the effeminate gay guy role

>>40735053 (OP)
No trust me, being nonbinary is much less cringe

>>40735053 (OP)
>I don't feel fem enough to think im actually a woman
internalized misogyny everytime

>>40735520
How is it not cringe? You can't realistically convince people you aren't either gender... At least I can be believed if I just say im a tranny

>>40735373
what if im only into women

i should be nonbinary too, and i'm actually androgynous brained but the label is associated with a bunch of female brained afabs which want to be seen as less feminine for some reason?

>>40738927
>androgynous brained
What’s it like. What do you mean. Describe your experience and how it differs from fembrained/malebrained people’s experiences.

>>40737325
honestly maybe im just from crazy wokeville but my mom asked me why i couldn't just be non binary when i came out, and ive met tons of people who kinda dismiss me as a binary trans person because they view gender as an absurd social construct

>>40738947
why do you want to know?

>>40738968
I want to know for knowledge’s sake. I’m curious.
Never seen anybody claim to be androgynousbrained before and I want to know what it’s like. I also want to see if it’s real by seeing if you can actually describe it as being different from male/fembrained

i feel sort of similarly, i guess. it isn't so much that i do not feel i project enough femininity, but more that i have no personal sense of gender and i like being a woman but i would really rather just be androgynous, i think. after i get srs i'm seriously thinking about cutting my hair to about a quarter of its current length (or going totally bald!!!!!!!!! i have always wanted to try) and getting top surgery
i have the same dilemma, currently, though; i can't just call myself nonbinary because you can't pass as that and i don't want to tell everyone all the time that i'm enby and have to ask them to use neuter pronouns. i think i like feminine pronouns anyways

>>40738973
it seems like i'm more masculine (interests, mannerisms, way i think, just everything) than almost every woman i've met but i also have a very decent amount of feminine traits, i think i'm a little too feminine to really fit in with men too. like feminine gay men fit in a category and theres certain types of masculine women but i don't fit in to one of those

>>40735053 (OP)
would you want to go out in public looking androgynous where people couldn't guess your gender?

being nonbinary is not cringe; it's just a harmless way of existing

Not saying That people will be nice to you about it or anything, just saying that there isn't a good reason for them being dicks

>>40739039
Tfw I kinda already do this as a boymoder