>>11364440
It takes practice and you have to want the outcome. Took me a year learning to trance and trying to feel the pleasurable tingle on command. Eventually you stop consciously anticipating the feeling, you just listen to the words and let the feelings catch you off guard, which marks the point you're no longer in control. The reward triggers train you to pay complete devoted attention to every word spoken.
Actually ejaculating takes at least an hour and there's some physical stimulation from listening under bedsheets. Don't listen to the same track more than twice a week, because boredom will ruin it.
The point of no return is then training yourself to only be able to cum when commanded.