>>76516211
>you should do it when you know you need to do it
>it's about facing them, dealing with them, letting go of whatever past trauma might have caused them and finding peace within yourself
I can agree on that but for over a few months maximum. winter arc as they say. self-introspection for prolonged periods of time is very dangerous specially if you're young. you might develop hyperawareness anxiety, basically overthink your future development. the way of ascetism is only worthwile if you abandon your current life and restart far away. but over some girl? come on. going "monk mode" is valid when something powerful is rotting you from inside and you're old. if you are young (that's why I asked) you will make mistakes, everyone will.
>it's healing yourself by facing the silence, the inner void, whatever "trauma" you've been through and letting go of it so it no longer interferes with your life.
I get your point but you shouldn't do it alone, the quicker you fix this the better.
>>76516238
>It doesn't literally mean cut everyone off, stop talking to people, leave your friends behind, never leave your place, cut all social ties
Good, I took the "drop off the face of the earth" literally and everytime I see people doing something like this it involves going back to their caves
>But also isolate yourself to a healthy degree
Buddy there's no such thing as healthy isolation, just cut whatever it is that did you harm and move on