>>938430735
Because my last ex used the knowledge of my previous breakups to fuck me up mentally to the point that I was emotionally dependent on her all the while playing the victim, she then found someone else, gaslit me into not reporting her for sexting a high schooler. Then she cheated again and blamed me before moving away to live with them and leaving all her shit and pets with me.
Therapy helped me unwind the knot she made in my brain and make connections like the fact that this is essentially her MO with the last person she did this to being her own mother whose house she moved from and into mine.