Thread 938430735

Why are you single? Be honest

fate + bad genes

>>938430773
Bad genes sure but wtf does fate got to do with it

>>938430796
I just know, you just know

>>938430735 (OP)
I don't know how to identify women with low standards that I'd also want to fuck

I'm kinda beta and got cucked and now I'm afraid of women

>>938430831
You only date for sex?

>>938430854
Oh a cuck. I like that in you

>>938430876
Well, not exactly. I was cheated on but I said cucked cause I thought that phrasing was funnier.

>>938430906
You wouldn't be my cuck then would you? Sad

>>938430937
I'm open to it tbh. I've watched a fair amount of cuck porn since.

>>938430991
Want my Instagram?

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I'm 5'9, have had a receding hairline since I was 13, not rich and I don't date hamlards.

>>938431079
Wealth attracts low iq women. Unless you like unintelligent bimbos then you're fine if you don't

Because niggers exist...

>>938430735 (OP)
/b/ are children.

>>938431036
Sure why not

>>938431117
This is some BS.
Wealth attracts women no matter how intelligent or dumb they are. It attracts the intelligent women because they're still women and base relationship potential on what a man can provide, only they call it "being successful" to make it sound better. They also view a man as being more intelligent when he's weal- er, I mean "successful."
Unless they're fat. The hamwhales still desire those same guys, but are so desperate they'll settle for less.

>>938431498
Instagram.com/mochiruyum
I'm kinda edgy though

>>938431500
I've seen a homeless dude scamming anybody who passes by then switched up with his girl to take a break. Dunno how you'll explain it with your ideas. Why don't you have a bitch to do that for you?

>>938431644
Wtf do some homeless crack heads have to do with anything?

>>938430735 (OP)
im not shes at work rn tho and i get to be a stay at home boyfriend and live my full neet lifestyle 10/10

>>938431701
Why didn't the crackhead go for a better partner though. Dated lowest of the low in wealth

>>938431761
Lol why reply to a singles thread? Bored or smth

>>938431797
very bored browsing /b/ its like 9.20 where im at and im playing vidya games im sure you all will find partners i believe in you anons

>>938431849
I'm not looking for partners. I'm looking to understand humans

>>938430735 (OP)
I am the product of the environment I was raised. And I was raised to be docile and alone.

>>938431865
cant help you with that as im autistic :l

>>938431869
Parents controlled you too hard? Did they turn you into a dysfunctional bitch?

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I have a shitty personality and I'm about a 4/10. On those occasions were some girl was actually interested in me, I wasn't interested in them at all.

>>938431875
Anon went macroplastic when he was a kid

>>938431892
What girl are you interested in? Tell me about what your ideal girl is

>>938431891
It’s a long story. A lot of abuse of different varieties. It was just how my mother was. Hard to explain in one post

>>938431964
I know a friend from Canada who's basically disabled socially because of his mother. All of us tried to help but in the end everyone just kinda gave up

Because the trad religious virgin girl I married turned out to be a complete narcissist and emotionally abused me for two years. I have been in 3 other relationships and all of them went to shit, and I thought it was because they were not trad or whatever meme /pol/ says so I tried that way and it was the worst of all of them.

At this point I am not even sure what to do. Still want to have a family and all that but every time I have tried to go beyond just sex I end up getting hurt.

>>938431938
Tall thin redhead, big tits. Fun and adventurous. Some sort of professional degree. Doctor or lawyer or something.

>>938430735 (OP)
Degenerate loser. No social life. No life at all it is what it is

>>938431996
That’s not far from me tbh

I'm a sucker for a love story
I crushed on a girl hard when I was 13, but was too scared to say anything before she switched schools to date some other guy. We got reintroduced in senior year and I was a new man, so I got with her. Fucked her until she'd tap out for a few months and then she finally asked to be my gf
>dated for 2 weeks then she tried pulling some bullshit on me so I broke it off
Next grill was a beautiful half Irish half trini girl with an afro and lotsa freckles on her cheeks. I asked her not to go to any of her friends for advice on what to do with me, because high school girls are RETARDED. she fell in love and went to a 25 year old 'friend' for advice on what to do with me and told me she got raped. I only saw disgust when she refused to tell me where he lived. She was a sweetheart, and I'm ashamed of the abuse I showed her
>she gave me everything she had and I still found a way to take even more
Next girl I fell for gave me the introduction to something that read like a true love story, but I couldn't find the strength to continue writing what was turning into a common tragedy
>I'm eternally grateful miss hamster
Next gf was a 2 week fling of passionate sex & high roller lifestyle. I could tell that she saw me for the opportunities I offered instead of my humanity, I.E: an easy way out of her birth country and back to Canada with me
>thanks for giving me your beautiful ass, Bogdana

And now? Well, I'm romancing the 17 year old daughter of my Englishman boss.
I love the roller coaster

>>938432081
>tall
>thin
>SPECIFIC HAIR COLOR
>claims he himself is a 4/10

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I broke up 3 months ago and need to get my shit together before I let a pretty girl ruin my life again.

Live in a shitty area and women keep only seeing me as a friend and the others are already taken or lesbian, I hate it about as much as I hate my life

Because I'm the only daughter of an abusive single dad and am seemingly incapable of forming meaningful long term relationships

>>938430735 (OP)
I live with my parents in a pretty rural area. Reason is high interest student loans and bad credit, refinanced after a few years, saving for a down payment on a home vs giving it all to a landlord. Not that I’d find a girl instantly if I lived in a town, but it’s sure as hell not happening here

>>938432062
I'm a narcissist and I've never hurt anybody, I've been hurt once while dating and that was it. Sorry to hear about the abuse, anon. I'm not sure what's a trad wife by your definition. I'm an insta girl and I'm new to /pol/ definitions. I still gotta add though, don't stop trying!

>>938432081
Lawyers are a big no for me but I can see where you're coming from. Personally I'd think it's a deal breaker

>>938432088
Degeneracy has a cure. You will love a long life. You weren't a degenerate when you were born, nor a loser. It came with age and while I don't know you, I think change will keep coming with age

>>938432095
I'm heartbroken by people like you. He was my first online friend and he's completely broken, he's feeling bad rn as we speak because he just fumbled his crush hard, he also did it in front of everyone. Today his crush deactivated their account altogether and he felt horrible for it.

>>938430735 (OP)
Last time I talked to a person was in 1993.

>>938432122
>17
Are you ok?

>>938432304
He’s almost a mirror for me; it’s true what they say about mirror personalities ig. I’m sure if I shared more details of my story the similarities would continue.

>>938432304
>edating
How do u even fall in love with the idea of someone

I'm a bit of a loner as in, I prefer solo hobbies and the only really thing I care about when it comes to women is sex, so I just have sex without getting into relationships, one day I want a family probably but I'd have to find some chick that is not a whore and is okay with me spending 60% of the day doing shit on my own.

>>938432127
Let him be himself, taste is taste. Please respect him anon. He can be 0/10 for all i care. People have taste

Tbh? I am lazy to s Form a Partner. If IT Happens in it's own OK. But as ist is now i do enjoy my freedom from having a Partner.

Btw, a lot of Bad Apples to sort through Till you find the ones you can tolerate or even love

>>938432201
Maybe you'll get along with my Canadian poor friend and elope

>>938432350
She's 178cm tall, green eyes, long legs, ginger hair & the cutest accent u could imagine

>>938432193
If they see you as a friend it's because you are a good person but you don't have flavor!

>>938430735 (OP)
I think I hate myself too much to believe anyone would be able to feel differently about me so I've just become fairly content that romance isn't in the cards for me

>>938432308
I have a hard time believing you

>>938432353
Did you ever have any progress in this? I feel for you anon

>>938432366
I wanna!

>>938432218
Trad is just assuming traditional gender roles. I was the provider and she was a housewife, but she did housewife stuff only the first few months and it eventually evolved into me working my ass off, sometimes 12 hours a day, to have to also take care of everything in the house later. Piles of dishes, all the clothes on the floor, expired food in the fridge, etc. If I didn't clean it stayed like this, and many times I didn't even have energy to do it so we lived in a constant mess.

Then, when I told her I was divircing her, she had the nerve to tell me that my lifestyle had given her a depression and that it was like a prison because all I did according to her was work, sleep and eat, conveniently forgetting that at least once or twice a week I took her on dates, shopping, etc.

>>938432370
Find a girl who's better than you at your own hobbies. You'll enjoy it I'm sure. Your requirements might just be too specific

>>938432426
In what sense? I have a lot of emotional trauma, an intense view towards women(fear/hatred/love in that order), multiple mental issues and struggle with addictions.

>>938432383
Partnership should offer you more freedom. I only date for freedom

>>938432475
Among other things I haven’t listed here

>>938432400
17 tho. You're a pedo anon

I live in a small town in the middle of no where and have nothing in common with the people here. I also don't leave my house.

>>938432403
What have you done to hate yourself?

>>938432447
Hmm from a female perspective, she used you. I enjoy cleaning up and get legitimate joy from house work because of the satisfaction when I look at what I've done. If a girl isn't ecstatic from her house work she will probably stop! She probably did it to please you at the start and you paid the price. Women can be evil, anon. Sorry to hear that

>>938432127
The question was what I aspire to, not what I can get. I usually end up fucking landwales.
There is fantasy and there is reality.

>>938432492
Yea, she's starting her last year of high school soon

>>938432475
God, you do sound like my friend more and more. I don't even know what to say here because I don't wanna be mean but you might the "unfixable" type. Not that you can't be fixed but it's beyond most people's ability. You gotta sadly pull yourself by yourself out of misery and idk how to provide any assistance i just came out of a huge talk with my friend

>>938432499
Why not online date for experience till you find someone?

>>938432539
I already covered for you anon, I understand you. I try not to treat harshly like that

>>938432401
Which is something I absolutely despise, at the very least when they are all like “”oh I only want to be your friend” that’s when I disappear completely from those bitches lives, shame is that’s what typically happens aside from them being lesbians or already with other men because of course

>>938432575

I don’t think it’s fair to make the assumption based on the little that I’ve explained. I have ASD/ADHD, if you were being mean I didmt catch it. If I had the opportunity to give you better details I think you could make a better assertion.

I’m not really comfortable discussing my feelings here but am interested in sharing what I have to say if you are genuine.

>>938432599
Thanks. And the landwale comment was unkind of me. They were all mostly sweet gals.

>>938432548
What do you mean yea? I called you a pedo anon

>>938432465
Having a good relationship unironically seems like too much effort. I would say I'm pretty undatable, I dislike or don't do 80% of the things 90% of women seem to like, I think I'm just not wired for relationships.

>>938432636
I said that to everyone and nobody disappeared. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't either. Were you treated like a low value person? There's more problems here that you probably did not notice or something

>>938432532
I am aware of that. I'm mostly sad because I'm almost 30 and already divorced. I have never had issues attracting girls but finding the right one to actually spend the rest of my life with sounds like a distant dream that gets further away with each year that passes, and I am afraid of falling back into the routine of alcohol, drugs and casual sex that I have always had and never going out of it.

>>938432638
You can dm me if you want but say something that's unique and identifies you or I won't know who you are. And my friend been diagnosed with ASD. I wasn't being mean. I was being realistic and objective oriented. I failed to help out someone like you. He's chronically online whining about random things all the time now

>>938432696
Going to be hard to dm you on 4chan. There are no dms here.

>>938432652
I'm an offroading junkie with passion for drones, mechanical things, tech among other things. I treat my hobbies like work and invest large percentage of my income into them. Recently I've been trying to make my own ransomware using hidden tear. I found a c++ version that had rsa/aes called starf1ame and i know nothing about it absolutely nothing i already bought a raspberry pi to experiment with it. My hobbies just consume me like a lot. I dream and i do. What are your hobbies?

>>938432670
That old ass routine would break my heart and I don't even know you. Like it feels like there's one less good person in this world. I'm an emotional person ig

>>938432733
Oh i linked my insta earlier to you. I thought that was the same anon

>>938432661
I chose to and very much do so intentionally, I’m not looking for a friend, no not treated poorly or anything it’s just not what I want, they probably notice but I don’t care at that point, sadly just had to do that again this past week, bah

>>938432842
That makes me sad not in a typical sad way but in a more "desolate" kinda sadness. Why are you not into friendships? If you had a girl would you finally allow female friends in your life?

>>938432801
I’m not but I will send u a dm. You’ll know it’s me. Answer if you like

>>938432767
My hobbies are inventing mostly useless crap then building said crap somewhat crudely through woodworking, 3D printing, machining etc. I like playing music, I game, sometimes a lot but most of my time is spent fixing, modifying or sometimes fucking up things, there's other things but those don't take up too much time.

>>938432872
If it's something very vague there's not a chance I'd know just warning you the piles of dms requests i have just gathering dust there lol just a psa for ya

>>938432641
For context, I kept my distance for the months we were around each other: I was aware that she was the boss' daughter. She saw me at my lowest, drinking alcohol in great excess & being generally belligerent when I was intoxicated and even made an effort to give me care when I was engulfed with grief & hedonism. Through it all, she approached me first and from the very first real conversation, there was genuine power & symbolism in the words we shared with each other.

Some people I've confided in with this about tell me the same exact thing:
>she doesn't have any experience!
>she hasn't gone through the heartbreak of her 20s!
>she doesn't know what she wants yet!

why should she have to go through countless error to develop a truly jaded character through more undue hardship in her life? Perhaps what im falling in love with is the fact that she has shown me her unihibited passion that the world haa only shown her that she should keep not only concealed, but alao restrained. If someone at the peak of their adolescence who expresses themselves with no societal-conditioned filter is something that I find attractive makes me a pedophile to someone outside of our connection, then who am I to try defend myself? I know I am not a predator, and so does she.

She is the biggest inspiration I've met in this life so farv

>>938432909
We're alike. Minus 3d printing I don't like it. I have a friend who does cnc and i mostly use that. Idk why you thought women don't like that. It's a very exciting lifestyle

>>938432917
Are you sure you are not gon wait till she matures? You don't think it's too early for you two?

>>938432869
Because the cycle is I like someone, they only want to be friends, I can’t get over it myself and there is no one to move on to while I see the em go for other people and the bitterness and hatred I hide away grows usually resulting in a silent disappearance anyway just with much more pain inflicted along the way causing me to loose even more of the little emotions I have left at this point, it isn’t as much the fact of their gender as much as it’s the reminder of the reality

>>938432982
I knew there's more to it. Rejecting a perfectly good friendship like that definitely has some underlying layers of hatred or anger. I'd love to be your friend but bitterness will just make you chase a gf elsewhere rather than that. I do feel for you though. I try to simulate how everyone feels when they tell me their story and i kinda understand it, justifiable even

>>938432972
I don't see an issue with being by her side as she matures in a healthy & fulfilling way, do you?

>>938433033
It’s a continued cycle, resulting in more pain each time, last week was the latest and yea just reminded me why I need to completely purge feelings and emotion, fun fact those feelings of love and interest and etc turn to hate the easiest so the easiest way to cope is the hate the person!

>>938432910
Well, it’s something. Not sure how to make it any less vague. Go ahead and look if you like.

>>938432500
Nothing too crazy, I just generally feel that I am a shitty human. I dropped out of school to be a degenerate, which I'm greatly disappointed in myself for. I sold fake thc oil in school which isn't too bad but I've been unable to forgive myself for potentially fucking up someone else's lungs permanently. Hell, I hate the circumstances of my own conception. My father is a pedophile rapist doing life behind bars who I was only told about as an adult. I'm literally a rape baby born to a mentally ill young single mom who should've never kept me. Perhaps that should be viewed as some blessing that I've been given so much love and care despite the awful circumstances of my birth but I can't help but feel some existential guilt for that honestly.

>>938433119
Oh anon, dont you know that hatred deatroys the vessel which contains it, don't you?

>>938433086
I don't think she's old enough to have a wide spectrum kinda idea of what's going on though. You can easily groom her and she'd have less freedom in life you know. It's not that you don't understand what I'm saying i think you do. She's naive isn't she

>>938432932
Oh no you misunderstand, the things women like are usually watching TV, going for dinner, holidays and stuff like that, I'm not that into that stuff, its the kind of thing I'd only get some pleasure out of because I'd be making some one I like happy but I don't enjoy the activity itself, additionally what I said is that I much prefer being alone with my hobbies, its not something I want to necessarily be sharing. Also I've never met a woman interested in any of this anyway.

>>938433124
Took me some time because of the way insta reworked dms request, it prioritizes followers count if you receive large amount of dms ig. I had to switch it to show all then you appeared. Cuckerberg ruining the app again

>>938433144
Aye, and it has not done wonders for me though at this point I don’t care much anymore, it’s a coping mechanism to move onto the next failure to date

>>938433161
Not at all, she is a quite grounded & industrious person: hellbent on asserting her independence. Again, you are repeating the same sentiment of my female friends I talk to about this

Do you believe that her lack of experience warrants her to go through misfortune, to 'learn?

>>938432792
Don't worry lol the break up is very recent and I'm just still in the heartbroken melodramatic phase
I'm a sucker for emotions and I will probably fall hard for someone again, and I'm too old for partying like I did in university anyways, so chances are the routine will mellow to some whisky, some weed and if I'm lucky a good hearted girl to enjoy them with me ocassionally

>>938433168
Bruv you just did. Me. I enjoy movies and everything else too but got that peculiar taste in shows lol

>>938433210
You need flavor, you won't be friendzoned with flavor

>>938433273
No I just think you have too much power over her

>>938433289
Whats your job?

>>938433143
Probably the most fucked up of us in this thread ngl

>>938433335
Probably true, regardless that is my he’ll with worsening mental health that at least others seem to think is just funny or weird and that’s just how I am

>>938433343
Does real strength not come from using one's power for growth & nourishment, rather than corruption & decay;
If it's a dynamic that's mutual, is it not the foundation of genuine love?

>>938433411
You're going to need to meet people nobody knows. None of your circles then connect to them with a personalty that just feels too mesmerizing

>>938433413
Mutualism with a power imbalance is just servitude though. Agree? She won't be able to take any path you dislike you know that

>>938433428
Yep, that’s the problem, definitely hate it whereas all attempts keep failing, meh maybe I’ll get lucky and die

>>938433398
Yeah thats kinda why I've just accepted my solitude. I really don't wish to burden another person with my problems, and the folks I know that have crazier lives than me are always in horribly toxic abusive relationships. Personally I've seen my fair share of domestic abuse and don't particularly wish to participate

>>938433482
Nigga quit talking like a pussy and give it another shot tf is wrong with you

>>938433457
You seem to misunderstand the difference between cooperation & service; for what basis does your assumption of my character regarding my understanding and empathy have to stand on to make such a statement?

>>938433360
Software engineer.

By the way, I'm impressed. You came to this godforsaken place and brought with you a ray of light. You really are helping some people here share their hearts and I can tell they needed it.

However, I must warn you. I am not exactly sure why are you here, but you shouldn't stay for too long. Your energy is very strong, I can feel it from here, and using it to help people is nice, but be aware that energy goes both ways and if you spend too much time here it will start consuming you.

>>938433494
Been down that road before, taking multiple shots at the same people always ends badly, always just extra resentment and hatred in the end

>>938433525
I give up. If you think you're not abusing her and giving her ample freedom without forcing yourself into her then I have nothing to say. Although I hope it's not sexual but that's asking for too much

>>938433316
Right, that's how it goes, first the movies and shows, then I'm sure there's other things I'd find that I don't like, by the end all that remains is a featureless form that someone smudged all over. I understand this is mostly a me thing but I also don't really see how I'd go about changing this.

>>938433535
Oh you should def add me, software engineer-san. It's becoming my new hobby. My first pi ever was ordered and I'm excited to do things with it! I love learning.

>>938433537
Get a wingman. Wait, my friend told me if you're dating, girls want to date you more. Is that true?

Hey there! I'm a 21-year-old girl living in the US, and I'm all about keeping things spicy. I love teasing and taking charge during our flirty chats, pushing boundaries until we both lose our minds. I'm super playful and open to exploring all kinds of fantasies, but I'm also a bit of a homebody because of my anxiety. That's why I'm all for keeping things digital—it’s just easier for me! If you're down for some wild conversations, hit me up. Add me on 4[username] (make sure to remove the spaces and dashes): E-mmi e-l a r kxx. Can't wait to have some fun together!

>>938433544
Your communications are genuinely appreciated & a perspective I will not disregard: May Lady Fortuna favour you

>>938433566
You are misunderstood.. BY you. There are women you will enjoy. People like you think they're the best when they're in a crowd of girls and honestly they're mostly right. Mostly. I exist and I have no issues with your hobbies, we both share that passion. You'll be happy with someone like me. Not offering myself just saying if I'm real then there's more than just me alone. Believe in the dream

>>938433577
I’ve done that before, the times that has happened my friend has gotten laid/ women and had a great time I get nothing, my best friend I’m still actually pretty resentful towards due to the last time that happened very recently, I know I probably sound like I’m full of excuses but these are my actual experiences and my existence

>>938433644
You don't have to challenge your own existence. What happened is real. You do lack hope though, if you had a positive outcome you'd be far more resilient. Have you heard of the hope experiment in mice?

>>938430735 (OP)
Because my last ex used the knowledge of my previous breakups to fuck me up mentally to the point that I was emotionally dependent on her all the while playing the victim, she then found someone else, gaslit me into not reporting her for sexting a high schooler. Then she cheated again and blamed me before moving away to live with them and leaving all her shit and pets with me.
Therapy helped me unwind the knot she made in my brain and make connections like the fact that this is essentially her MO with the last person she did this to being her own mother whose house she moved from and into mine.

>>938433666
What knowledge did she have from your previous break up? Were you sensitive to certain manipulation techniques?

>>938433662
I have not and you are correct there has been no success, which with me getting older too outlook is even bleaker as everyone continues, it’s a hell, not sure what I did to endure this punishment but alas this is what I get apparently

>>938433484
I love you anon

>>938433729
The mouse is dropped in a jar of water and forced to swim. The mouse eventually gets tired and accepts death. It drowns after a couple minutes of paddling. Fatigue sets in and nothing can be done. The researchers do scoop it up to not let it die though.

The experiment is done on new selection of mice, this time they get rescued if they tread for a couple minutes. Then after putting them back they continue to tread the waters continously for hours without showing any signs of stopping even with fatigue, all because of hope.

It's learned helplessness vs actual hope

>>938433715
That I've been cheated on multiple times and so knew the signs, that I'm prone to anxiety and paranoia, that my issues stem from bullying and a suicide attempt that I've kept hidden from almost everyone that if revealed would've landed me in hot water with my airport job at the time and would get a lot of the things I enjoy confiscated by family.
My therapist and I have been working a lot on moving past her period in my life and trying to relearn the confidence and self care I had before we started dating, it's not going well.

>>938433875
Excuse my language but what a bitch. Crazy how humans can just allow themselves to do this

>>938433607
No, I dislike being around women or big crowds, noise and mundane degeneracy. I dont know how you got that, i really enjoy being alone but i also understand relationships can be fullfilling, im just wired in a way that is not conducive to that lifestyle i think. Its good that you, personally dont mind my hobbies, the problem is i enjoy my hobbies alone, its not something i want to share, also, i wouldnt really think id be happy with someone who is watches tv shows, movies and browses 4chan/reddit.

>>938433906
Yep, insane how she until the day I blocked her still insisted that she didn't do anything and if she did that she didn't do anything wrong since and I'll quote this one directly "are into yandere's"

>>938433760
It was genuinely so nice to read this, even from a faceless stranger on the internet. Thank you.

>>938433848
Hope is a dead thing for me in this regard, at this point I’m struggling through each day attempting to kill any human emotions as much as I can, all my experiences actually have possibly turned me into a sociopath by now in all hi watt as each experience led to differences in behavior and etc, not fun but survival and it’s continuing to tread forward until the inevitable finally frees me

>>938433913
It's my first time here lol. I still think you can enjoy your hobby with someone who has no noise. I can't describe it but i feel noise when i work. A series of actions that i might or might not act on to maintain control and organized operations. I met silent people, rarely, well only one, she emits no noise. I work and I don't feel her presence, yet she's there. I reach my goals faster and it's honestly the first time I felt not bothered during work hours. We do talk it's not silence in audio it's more like my thoughts are silent about her as if she's part of me you know. It's weird to describe ah I'm so embarrassed lacking the communication to say how i feel

>>938433947
Haha you deserve love, I know I'd wanna see that message if i were you. Your happiness would make me happy, despite your past

>>938434012
Have you ever thought that your recent changes will push you away from your personal goals?

>>938431644
What was the scam?

After a string of pretty bad relationships, I've elected to just not be in one.

I'll still hook up with a girl if she's cool, but I'm not getting overly-invested for the time being. I'm planning on leaving the US in the next year or so anyway.

>>938430735 (OP)
dick too big

>>938434078
Begging for travel money saying they need money to get back home but they just use it to smoke

>>938434074
There haven’t been any recent ones aside from another me disappearing because I don’t want to be that bitches friend and my wingman pissing he off by being successful, even all that continues as it has for over a decade now more or less even though these last ones definitely hit me harder

>>938433875
Pretty messed up. I'm never coming back to this thread again.

>>938430735 (OP)
i am single because every time I want a specific woman... it is exactly that woman out of them all that doesn't want me back... ... ...and maybe also some bad luck... ... ...and I am afraid to ask a woman out that I would want to fuck...

>>938432586
online dating isnt real anon

>>938434096
Leaving to where?

>>938434192
It's real experience at least. Compare it to doing nothing

>>938434225
I prefer nothing. The tragedy of online dating is having two people who fall for each other who can then never meet due to distance. I don't see how that would make you feel less lonely.

>>938430735 (OP)
25M here. Was a decent-looking dude until 2022. Last girl I hooked up with was ugly, didn’t care, just wanted the body. Word got around, I dumped her and called her ugly. Few days later some guy decks me in the eye, face gets messed up. Now I look like shit and haven’t touched dating since.

>>938434379
But meeting is easy just a flight ticket

>>938434384
Ehh.. You ok buddy?

>>938434210
Kuala Lumpur.

>>938434479
Crazy. Why you going there?

>>938434026
Good, stay as far from /b/ as you can, theres probably still some alright boards depending on your hobbies. As for everything else you said, im not sure ive met people like that, im usually pretty quiet myself maybe thats why, seems hard to describe, dont be embarrassed if you cant find the words. You seem sweet btw, you should be replying to the other posters who seeemingly have way more issues ( everything you read here is fake )

>>938434518
Work-rleated. I've got a friend who lives there already.

>>938434418
its really not. long distance relationships rarely work out. its just too impractical.

>>938434425
Not really. I’ve tried online dating, but every time they ask for a picture, I get blocked shortly after. At this point, I’ve just learned to live alone. I’m not rich enough to get surgery to fix my face, and my luck ran out back in 2022. Now I’m broke, struggling to find work — been rejected from every job interview I’ve had. Still living with my parents, just kind of drifting through life.

>>938434576
Huh what? I've never seen that before. Why would someone go as far as blocking for just a picture

>>938434576
Show pic of damage bro, hide your eyes or something if youre shy

>>938434609

They’ll usually talk to me for a couple of days, probably just so they don’t seem rude. But after a while, they start showing all the signs they’re not interested — taking forever to reply, ignoring my texts. I already know why they’re doing it, so I just stop talking too.

>>938434622
Pic related.

>>938434720
What ethnicity are you

>>938434778
I dont think that happens from getting hit, but if it did or something similar happened you should have sued and made some good money.

>>938434843
Sadly, it can. Ptosis can be from damage to the eyelid

After 20 years of dating, one failed marriage, and being the "other guy" 3 times without being told up front, I have concluded that there is no point in dating or marriage to anyone you don't own.
Women are feral animals, they are feral animals outside of the bounds of control. Because there is nothing keeping them bound to one man, they all end up chasing the dopamine cycle eventually. You can't hit them, you can't restrain them.
They get "bored" nowadays, relationships last 6-12 months before they start seeking out novelty and excitement.
Unless you're willing to constantly create novelty for a woman (the opposite of settling down and raising a family) there is no reason for her not to chase it elsewhere. So why date when the cycle continues, 6-12 months in, relationship loses momentum because she's leaving the honeymoon phase and thinks that the loss of a spark means loss of attraction/excitement and blamo you've just wasted half a year to a year of your finite time on earth on a woman who cost you time, money, and peace in the end.

So I wholeheartedly and unironically endorse human trafficking, prostitution, and slavery. The only women who will be able to contribute to a happy life are those who have been brain broken into literally being robotic sex/service dolls by some eastern european psychopath

And because I'm not rich enough to afford one, I choose to stay single, and if I really need to nut I go on backpages and get some whore to suck my dick for an hour.
Pretty simple.

>>938430735 (OP)
several reason actually.

for starters, I'm fat as fuck, I weight about 300lb, maybe more, and I have zero social skills.
And the reason for that might have to do with autism, I don't know for sure that I'm autistic, but I have strong reasons to believe I am.
I end up ghosted all the time, maybe because they realize they can do better or some shit.

Also, my job is a dead end job, I make barely enough money to afford basic stuff.

I met someone once at a concert, 7/10, she invited me back to her place, but I didn't go because well, zero social skills, I didn't know she wanted to fuck, my friend told me, I didn't believed him at first, but after more friends told me the same thing, I realized I fucked up.

I basically present as aesexual, that's the best way of putting it. Like I'm incapable of inserting any kind of suggestivity into my conversations with women whatsoever. Same goes for most ITT. Just an utter lack of socialisation. Maybe it's fixable to a degree but even if you find a group and go out and do stuff with them all the time you'll always be behind, always be socially stunted and emotionally immature. And past a certain age, I think that kind of learned aesexuality gets cemented and you just don't get the impulse to make passes at women or to attempt any kind of initiating.

>>938430735 (OP)
Physically I'm pretty ugly with a small penis and some speech issues. Socially I'm awkward, very shy, have trouble talking beyond small talk and even that is very draining. Psychologically I enjoy alone time a lot and I feel like I'm quite stunted from the way I grew up.
I also don't have the best opinions toward women so I would always be on edge and I know I will in some way resent her for having a bodycount, but at the same time I would be too conscious about not being able to make her as happy as I should be.

>>938430735 (OP)
unable to socialize with women

got friends who will say "oh I'm so shy and anti-social" and then go and hang around girls for most of their time. meanwhile i just shut myself out from any interactions, and any attempt of women to interact with me is usually met with a lot of unease and absolute lack of trust (would be cautious even if just asked the time)

>>938430735 (OP)
I seriously just can't find a girlfriend who wants to have a family in my area. I'm in love with 2 girls, but it's "complicated", I guess you could say.
Feelsbadman.jpg because all I want in life is a family...

>>938430735 (OP)
I'm fat and ugly. My exgfs, from the time when I wasn't fat and ugly, taught me some fetishes you can't expect for every girl to like.

I'm insecure, afraid of getting taken advantage of and expecting disappointment.

>>938430735 (OP)
I hate women

Because even though I've been with great women who were doing everything right, my body doesn't feel it back. At some point I just stop caring, get cold and distant.

So, after hurting enough people who were earnestly good loving folk, I've resigned to be single.

I like the idea of having company, enough that I’m on a variety of dating apps and have had some good fun.

But the idea of following the expected path just doesn’t interest me at all. Nobody I meet has a personality I’d want to stick around with long-term.

I’m at that age where my feed is all “MommyGram” and home-buying posts—yet nobody seems to live a life I’d actually find desirable

>>938430735 (OP)
Because im tired of the shit that comes with dating or being married. I prefer the single life no games, no drama , no issues. If i wanna have sex i can with anyone, No worrying free life..

>>938437507

I’m saying this with zero condescension, because I genuinely feel for you and the challenges you’re dealing with. But from what I’m hearing, a lot of this would really benefit from professional therapy.

It sounds like there are some self-esteem hurdles to work through, plus a shift in perspective on a few things—like realizing body count isn’t an all-or-nothing scoreboard, and that keeping someone happy isn’t about performing some exhausting routine.

For what it’s worth, I’ve got a small penis and I’ve still done just fine in dating—it’s just not something I put on my résumé.

>>938430735 (OP)
Learned helplessness from rejection.
Nearly middle aged and depressed.
I only continue to live to use resources because of my spite.
I hate women so much.
I used to love women.

>>938430735 (OP)
idk how to talk to women and I never leave the house.

Notice how all of the uglies get sympathy and the traumatized get ignored?
Yeah, sub5 isn't the doomed state, high inhibition is.
If you are ugly, you DO still have a chance.
If you have been cut down repeatedly until you're a whimpering piss stain in a dark corner, it's over. Just kys, nobody cares.

>>938430735 (OP)
i am asexual lol
i guess i could be considered asexual with vagina dysphoria because i want to have my vagina mutilated into a functional organ, but i still don't think i like people and i still want to mutilate myself
i just want to

I hate women.

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I'm a fucking loser.

>>938430735 (OP)
I hate women

>>938430735 (OP)
Unless you are a 9 or 10 dating today is useless.

>>938430735 (OP)
I'm a pirate

>>938449842
Nope, it’s not useless. My brother is about as attractive as me, but he had a crew of horny friends instead of gaming losers like me. He’s been getting action since 15, not meaning he got the best girls or every girl he wanted, but he was persistent, built confidence, and has had like six girlfriends. I’ve had one date last year that went nowhere.

He’s not particularly attractive, he just goes to the gym, keeps a job, maintains hygiene, and is confident enough to talk to girls. Uglyness makes it harder, not impossible. Most ‘mid’ people are fucking other mid people.

Chances are you haven’t had a ten-minute conversation with a female you’re not related to or work with in years. Be honest, like me, you probably stay in the house and don’t talk to girls.

Crippling social anxiety and been isolated for so long I don't even know how to begin a basic social life, let alone romance.

>>938442668
>It sounds like there are some self-esteem hurdles to work through
Yes, a lot.

>body count isn’t an all-or-nothing scoreboard
I can rationalize that for some time but I'm self-aware enough to know that if I date a non-virgin eventually something will come up that will make me think about how I missed on teen love and she didn't, how I'm not special to her just one of various guys she has been with, that I'm just the settle-down guy for after she had her fun, etc.

>exhausting routine.
I overthink a lot about how others are feeling, it wouldn't take much to make me think that I'm wasting my partner's time and she should be better off single or with someone else.

>it’s just not something I put on my résumé.
It is a big source of sexual and body anxiety for me, but even considering it isn't the deal breaker it is another major negative quality that joins the others.

Honestly I fully see myself staying virgin for life and I think it is best this way, forcing myself to be with someone just looks like more trouble than it is worth it.

>>938452543
You sound a bit like me honestly, particularly overthinking other peoples feelings. I'm getting professional help. Got an autism diagnosis which I don't really care about, but at least it's confirmation on why I have some of my... quirks and helps me be less hard on myself.
Talking therapy to deal with my past shit and self esteem, and speech therapy to basically help with my conversation skills, which honestly I'm better at than I thought I was, at least in theory. We'll see how it goes.

Don't worry about dick size. Most women really don't care, and you'll figure out stimulation likes and whatnot via the natural exploration of sex if you have it.That said Vaginas by design contract around a penis, they'll feel pleasure however small it is.
Also, people in general live in the now, she isn't going to compare you to other partners if she cares about you, it doesn't matter if she isn't a virgin, and the older you get the harder it'll be to find a woman that is one.

>>938430735 (OP)
No money
No game
No social skills
No confidence
Not fit
Not tall
Not attractive

>>938430735 (OP)
People don't like being around me. I am too autistic and quiet and they think I might be a lunatic. I live alone and no one has checked up on me for two weeks now.

i like the idea of being in a relationship but find myself genuinely hating whoever has the misfortune of dating me
i like having close friends who i can talk to openly, but the moment someone becomes more than a friend it becomes miserable
i get clingy and i get anxious if i don't hear from them for even a small amount of time, yet the more time i spend with them the more i end up actively hating them as i unfairly nitpick even their slightest "faults"
i could disappear from friends for a few days or maybe a month if i need to cool down, but i can't really do that in a relationship
it's not even a light dislike either, i genuinely end up hating them so much that my head hurts and i harm myself when i have to so much as think of them
i'd rather just be friends who are close enough to comfortably vent and chill without fear of sensitive information getting used against each other, but distant enough for them not to pry into me when i'm not in the state to talk

>>938453274
Not with that attitude.

Love yourself more. At least 3 of those can be quickly and easily fixed.

>>938453132
I'm happy things are working out for you. I gave a shot at therapy when I was younger but it didn't help at all. Maybe it will change later but right now I only see dating as a source of headache. It might see as a black pill but to me it is just being realist.

I was relatively social and outgoing... dare I say even normal until 9-10, then suddenly... something changed fundamentally in my psyche. I lost all my confidence, got massive amounts of anxiety and just couldn't talk to people, which later lead to bullying and me basically alienating myself from the world for the next 30 years, unable to fully trust anyone.

I find it frustrating now, because I CAN talk, and read social cues etc fine, I learned most of it when I was a kid and retained it deep down. It's just like this force field of anxiety that holds me back, and trying to push through it bring me so much misery I don't often feel I want to due to the depression and shame it creates.

>>938430735 (OP)
I never learned to socialise, I was physically & mentally abused by my parents all through my childhood so much that I barely done a word for fear of being beaten, hence I never Jeanne to talk to people. Don't get me wrong I can talk just can't make the initial interactions or keep the first convos going. I've had tonnes of sex because my body was ripped & I had a nice cock n alright looks maybe 6/10 idk.. But now I'm old, fat, alcoholic who's tired of this shit fucking woke jew society full of niggers n faggots that I barely leave the house key alone talk to anyone, I can go months without talking to a single person I think 13 months was the longest I went without speaking or interacting with another human.
Life sucks & then we die, we're not special we just deal with the cards we're dealt, some people are rich n enjoy life others like myself are broke, poor & tired of it all

>>938454144
Don't sell yourself short, you might be like me, I fucking hate it when women just disappear without a word. No "hey just going to the store" or "hey just running late"
No woman I have ever been with has ever done this yet I do this just as a force of habit. So maybe it's not that you get anxious, maybe it's that you're around miserable cunts.

See? What'd I tell ya. Nobody cares.
They'll care when the boomers begin dying and the >60% of men become unignorable anymore. The solution will just be to increase the intensity of what is already being done. We are pushed to take our own lives.

>>938455336
They will keep ignoring anon.

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I'm asian and my penis is really tiny and the girls laugh at me then leave after they've laughed at my tiny little penis

>>938456302
Find better girls anon.

>>938454305
At some point you got to keep it real. Women want what they want and that either is what you are or aren't

>>938430735 (OP)
I choose to be. I've had constant attempts at me here or there by older women, girls my age, and younger women and I'm just not interested in the drama of females anymore. You're simply not worth the stress. You have completely ridiculous expectations, society has normalized you not having control of your feelings. You have less self control than men do for cheating, and then play victim when caught or blame the man. If I went to a 3rd or 2nd world country, i run a higher chance of disease or the bitch just using me as a jump pad to start life in a new richer country. Women are scum. It's not like mandatory dna tests at birth will stop them being cunts. Culturally worldwide, women are shit and they'll never see it because they're programmed to mentally tailspin into victimhood mode at the slightest bit of criticism rather than self scrutinize when legitimate criticism is levied against them.

For all I care at this point the entire gender can die off.

>>938430735 (OP)
It just… never happened. I’ve jogged through my life: went to school, finished college, university, got a diploma, was in a business, which has failed, then got a stable job in IT. Never have I ever been approached by a woman, except when I was in the 8th grade and my classmate suggested “we just do it” out of the blue. Her mental state was questionable even back then, and not long after that she was diagnosed with BPD+schizophrenia, poor gal. Me being overweight (although not as bad, I’m chubby) and having Asperger’s obviously didn’t help the situation, but it’s not like I have, or had any interest or desire to be with someone. While my peers started dating and going to parties at 16 and onwards, I was studying and playing videogames. Now that I’m 30, I’m accustomed to being alone, and so it be. See you all on Hogwarts Express.

I tried to hold her accountable to the fact that making major life choices (rehoming a happy healthy puppy because I kept baby talkin at him and gave him to many treats so I was a lil disrespectful ill admit and am trying to work on it) without consulting your partner was an unacceptably toxic and selfish thing to do. Then, being the fool I was, decided that then was a good time to enforce that boundary by saying "if you're seriously going to do this I think you should find somewhere else to live too because we're breaking up if you go through with it without at least consulting me because of course he's yours and you have the authority here but this is completely unfair and i at least deserve to have choice explained in detail" to which I was met with an "I've made up my mind".

We lived together 5 years and 2 months ago they packed up their essentials and bolted. Spent almost 24/7 together, because both retarded and disabled, for years and just like a lightswitch they ditched me and haven't spent a single night cuddling me since. We kept banging for a bit and even had a couple dates since but I just can't even look at them anymore, I don't care about the sex anymore, I miss having somone who made it feel safe to trust with my feelings and thoughts. I miss having that person who made me feel like my traumas and experiences didn't make me less loveable. I miss feeling like I wasn't alone anymore

the idea of sex sickens me at this point. I legit came here to jerk off and when I saw this thread the desire left me completely, was struggling to even get it up and that just.... doesn't happen to me... i have always had the opposite problem. Actually after about 15 shots of fireball and a few hundred mg of THC I can get it up and finish but sober it's like MABEY I can get horny enough to jerk it once a day. We used to fuck like 3 to 5 times a day unless one of us had a blown out back Kek.(suprise im the fuckin guy)

i just stopped caring. every so often i'll get the urge to get a gf but it really doesnt feel like its worth dumping all the time and effrt just so they turn out not liking you or they have really shitty beliefs/futures. alot of grils feel like self-sabotaging dumbasses and I dont wanna get caught in the whirlpool of retardation

>>938463593
>partner
>they
lose the nose rings and go lift some weights faggot. you sound like you make your own problems. be a man. focus on man things

>>938463593
It was an abusive relationship, I see that after 2 months of reflection, nobody deserves to be treated the way I was being treated outside the bedroom for the majority of the time these last couple years. But you know what the most fucked up part of this breakup has been /b? Not how violently they rugpulled me on the whole "together forever" lie, not the fact that as an autistic person the drastic shift in daily life causing me to live in what is functionally a fucking nightmare, not the anxiety of not knowing if they're safe or even the being kept in the dark about the future of the relationship.

(I called it a couple weeks ago after 7 weeks of no snuggling or sleepovers or keeping plans or trying to make plans with me and going to bars and hitchhiking to concerts with dudes they hardly know. enough was enough and its been more than that for too long.)

Nah, the worst part is that thoes were the best fucking years of my life by miles. I've never been more happy than I was until the day she left...i did the Darksouls prostration emote and begged them not to leave minutes after saying they should go...

Something else that's fucked up is I still miss them and want them back. despite everything I've said here and baby that shits just the tip of the iceberg, it gets SO much more fucked up. We... were terrible but like, together. It was never supposed to be towards eachother. I miss the emotional and physical pain they'd inflict on me so so so so much. The breadcrumbing STILL got me wishing I hated myself enough to go fuck them one last time. But after trying to drink, drop and smoke myself to death for about 6 weeks straight something changed in me. I'm numb enough to move forward at least

(partially it was a tribute to Ozzy I should admit and I definitely got on his level alot this last month, don't know how I'm still alive. would have done this anyways just would have probably just been a couple nights not almost a couple months if not for breakup)

>>938464416
I'm 6 4 and look like a viking lol, I am kinda jacked but going to be way more so in a month. Will post abs

ugly + afraid of women

>>938438603
Like what?

Honestly i don't even know. Im not handsome but not ugly, 6ft3 decent income . But i don't really fall in love no crush or stuff like that . in my 27 years i had 1 single crush and she said no . Now i'm a virign 27 men. And i don't know in other place but in france virgin are treated like sub-human.
So even if i finnaly find a crush and a love story it would probably not happen because i have 0 experience.
Also i don't like girl who slept with hundred's of people too

>>938465011
genuinely would appreciate any comments or input on my situation. Fuck roast me if you want, it'll be nice to feel something other than... whatever the fuck this is.

>>938466569
I don't want to talk about it.

>>938468705
right here>>938446081

>>938430735 (OP)
That's totally on me. I aint got nobody else to blame. Live by the sword die by the sword. An edge cuts both ways.

>>938471364
The other edge of the blade, really got to live off the fat of the land and create their happy frollically people. I cut for them too, why aint they getting the sharp end the stick?

>>938430735 (OP)
Give me some time, I just need the courage to ask the girl at work out. (Also not sure what to actually say)

>>938474214
Start small, be a familiar face (go at the same times), brief eye contact and simple nod/hello to start with, then maybe a small comment about weather or shit after a while when that's more comfortable, eventually you're just acquaintances by habit and will likely talk more spontaneously on both sides.

The biggest issue with anyone with social anxiety is breaking the ice, and that's not too hard to do if you take it slow in a low pressure environment like the gym.

deep state ruining my life

The only thing i got going for me is a huge cock, and im not fat or short, but mentally im fucked. Also im white so having a big dick isnt really a selling point anyway.

>>938430735 (OP)
Because I'm poor and past relationships have left me emotionally and psychologically damaged an untrusting of women. Even once I'm back in a better financial situation I'll probably stay single. Women just don't seem worth it anymore.

Scared of the commitment, but I've been single for so long I can't even get myself to swipe right on tinder or like ppl on hinge. When I'm out with my buddies and we talk with girls I don't know how to signal that I'm interested, I've lost all ability to.
Wat do

>>938430735 (OP)
I'm just not interested in gaining social skills, this all "social" stuff feels like a scam honestly where i will end up always doing something i never wanted to do, like go to parties/restaurants/beach/events/other places. I'm just home guy, i like chilling at home, and it happens that there are no bitches here at home lol. I do feel lonely sometimes, really want gf soulmate, but it's just impossible from my point, and I'm not gonna do more

>>938430735 (OP)
fat and barely make enough money to support myself, let alone another person.

>>938476179
bleh, and bleh, and bleh, and bleh, look at how i type fellows. you arent funny or smart either. go away and die? questing mark lol. will you? probably not lol you think people like you. but most of them wish you would die and go away forever lol. but you got a lot more to post!

>>938476237
>bleh, and bleh, and bleh, and bleh
IT'S JUST 3 SENTENCES, YOU FUCKING ZOOMER, GO FUCK YOURSELF. Go jerk yourself off in your tiktok, you all zoomers are the same, sick fucks, 0 attention span. God i want to fuck some zoomers to put them in their place

Im looking for asian ass and pussy that is into bwc tbh

>>938430735 (OP)
The only ones interested in me turn out to be fucking awful
I ain't trying that shit again nigger

Fat + ugly + psoriatic + depressed + gay + schizoid + sexually degenerate + unfuckable + unlovable + barely alive.

A relationship is an unfair trade-off. I’ve got to share everything I have, risk my finances, lifestyle, future, emotional well-being and future prospects, for what? Occasionally getting to stick it in her?
Absolutely not worth it, they can wake up any day and decide they are done with you and decide to cheat on you or fuck you over. Marry a chick and she’ll get bored and leave you, taking half of all of your shit.
Absolutely rotten deal for a man.

>>938430735 (OP)
women hate me, I guess.

>>938431865
>I'm not looking for partners.
I admit that I do get more experience, trying out new women.

I live in a shithole (Serbia) and the type of girl I'd want probably doesn't exist. But then again, I'm under the impression that women don't really like most men in the first place, so it never mattered in the first place.

>>938430735 (OP)
Because im possibly possessed

>>938430735 (OP)
I'll tell you why I'm not. I got lucky and had sex one time and it opened the floodgates. Just went straight up to the next girl I was interested in and made it happen.

they only loved me when I was 18/19. they don't love me anymore.

>>938481459
Do you love yourself.

99% of people issues here is down to that. Love yourself, and it radiates to others.

I have no desire to trust anyone with my most intimate thoughts. Procreating would be cool, but I don't trust most people, and finding someone I not only trust raising a child but also find sexually attractive seems like it would be more difficult than rewarding.
Sex is fun until it isn't. Masturbation provides nearly the same feeling and is much easier to incorporate into a lifestyle of your choosing. Sex must be coordinated with another person, while masturbation can be initiated at nearly any time.
No hate on either gender, and I'm genuinely happy for people who find happiness in cultivating a physical relationship with another person, but it simply isn't my cup of tea. I've tried it, even liked developing feelings of intimacy toward another, but I take break-ups particularly hard, and I'd much rather be forever alone than endure that emotional upheaval again.

I have no friends or family. I have agoraphobia and haphephobia. I have so little trust in humaity I spend my days drawing and playing mmo's alone.

women loved me when I was 18/19. now they don't love me anymore.

I'm short, very fat and have a tiny cock.

"because your standards are too high?", is that what you're going to say?

I have approached many girls, but I didn't succeed.

>>938465011
>I'm numb enough to move forward at least
Good. No one should stay in an abusive relationship, even if the break up is messy and you regret it just after you would have to deal with it sooner or later, the sooner the better.

>>938485030
same

These days I have improved on my social skills, and am pretty rapidly improving on my abilities to connect and be kinder to myself, but honestly I just can't communicate in any romantic way with women at all. It feels like I'm broken and hopeless in that regard.

I can talk to them, but it's like there's a force field or something when it comes to expressing interest or flirting. I like women, get crushes and desire a relationship.

Maybe with time and healing with the whole social anxiety thing, it will get easier with time. I hope so anyway. I've just turned 39 and I want kids. Too much longer and that won't happen.

>>938430735 (OP)
racially disliked

>>938430735 (OP)
Passion for another person is a sin. There are only two types of love: love for God and love for one’s neighbor, which has nothing to do with romantic lust.

i've been too much of a playa but now i'm getting old i'm a fucking he-stacy :(