qott 1: absolutely
qott 2: there is no point but what you give it. try to not to hurt people, animals neither if you can help it, the rest is kind of up to you.
Bonus: I think I've learned I prefer women, especially tough chicks, butch nb-bbls, ftms, the kind of double-x who can kick my ass, but that's the thing, I'm just a 6'3" lanky bottom, cursed to AGP brain and too pussy to live my best life and not gaf what other people think