You got to be happy being alone first before you do that. And I'll tell you it is easier said than done, but once you do that, then susan the sexy blonde biologist looking at petri dishes with a microscope will gradually date you and then have sex with you, but only if you are happy being alone, and you have to as well demonstrate you see her as an intelligent human being not an object, which is even harder and especially hard with high IQ attractive women. The most important part is to take things slow and test the waters.