>>33487347
its a mix. treat her like an intelligent human being, one you want to hang out with, and admit that you find them hot. maybe because of that.
i once had an ex ask me some psychology question, and mid ramble, i looked down and watched him get hard as i explained. we then fucked like animals. still really hot, looking back on things.
>>33487354
honestly, all depends on her confidence in her asshole. if she likes you, she'll do her research. also, individual worries about cleanliness and anal tearing or whatever.