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Well, the other problem with autismos is that they bulldoze through the normal process by which people gradually, in steps, permit others into their confidence. Every successive notch closer that you try to take a relationship has to be undertaken in such a way that you give them an out to politely, indirectly decline if they don't want to, which you are then expected to be able to handle gracefully so that they don't feel awkward by having to be explicit and direct. Spergs are oblivious to this and tend to do autistic shit like inviting someone on vacation with them that they've only been talking to for a month, and then when the person declines have a meltdown and start texting them
>I don't know what I did wrong, why did you say no? I thought we were friends. I guess I was wrong
All of which makes the other person's skin crawl, not even because they necessarily dislike them but because it's bone chillingly uncomfortable to have to EXPLICITLY explain that you don't want to get closer to someone, because it makes you feel like an asshole. Furthermore, anticipation of having to deal with this with someone you can smell the 'tism on motivates people to keep them at a distance in general, compounding the problem