I care about my girlfriend deeply, but we have very different values and definitions of what a good night looks like.I prefer calm, quality time together, while she enjoys clubbing and nightlife with her friends. Earlier in our relationship, we talked about how clubbing made me uncomfortable and she agreed to stop, but over time she started going again and I tried to be okay with it since it was something she really wanted to do. Recently, she left a night we were spending together to join her friends at a club, and it brought back all the original hurt. I feel like I’ve been bending my own boundaries just to avoid conflict, and now I’m carrying resentment while she feels restricted. I don't think going clubbing is something someone in a committed relationship should do. If I was there I'd be less of an issue for me, but I don't want to go clubbing. I’m trying to figure out if staying means losing parts of myself, or if breaking up is the healthier long-term choice

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