e it has nothing to do with proving urself to someone else. It has to do with the words u choose to stand by.

Being a good man is hard, that's why we stand out much less than most but it pays off. Good masculinity is knowing when to be easy at times while knowing when to be hard. So be gentle with the weak but tough with the strong.

To prove ur worth is to ask the question of what U think u're worth. I honestly believe that men of valor are the ones who build things instead of destroying them.

Baldur was a man driven by Revenge and sought to destroy, a clear example of some men and women we have today. Meanwhile there's the other half
Being a "good guy" doesn't make u soft either, doing good is much harder than doing bad. (For those who like to say shit like: "go be a momma's boy somewhere else ")