I just found out about this general, I've been wishing for this general for years and somehow I never came across it lmao.
I've been doing anal stuff with homemade toys and my fingers since I was a teenager but only last year I got the courage to buy a proper dildo. Holy fuck, day and night difference, even if the real toy has a smaller girth. It immediately turned me into a buttslut, I do anal twice a week now.

https://www.amazon.com/Simply-Silicone-Couples-Flexible-Suction/dp/B0BVY2DZ4K
The toy is a bit stiff and the curves can get aggressive if you go too hard in the wrong position, but I still love how I get endless peegasms with this toy. Whether I'm going over my prostate or past my prostate and hitting my bladder, the pleasure and pressure build up until I piss all over the shower floor or bidet, with just a few minutes of refractory period. I think I see some prostatic fluid mixed in too.

Sadly I still haven't found a way to cum handsfree. I've been trying to not touch my dick at all during anal sessions, but my longest streak was 5 sessions in a row. After the 6th I just couldn't take it anymore and finished myself with my hand while ramming that toy in deep. The orgasms I get from anal are mindbending each time, even if they're not hands free.
(Also is sunflower oil OK? People barely ever talk about it online.)