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Imagine having a budget, several kids each with a different after school activity you have to drive them to and you've paid about 20$ for a pack of picrel so you each get a piece.Then your kid has brought some brown over without letting you know and now have to deal with that on top of all the other things: that is the heart of the matter. That's the point I'm trying to make, food is expensive, daily life is busy busy and we dont sit around all evening eating some bean and rice stew getting inflamed. About 80% of our youth does some sort of training at least once a week. The infamous example brought up is a story about a kid not getting dinner because he showed up without an invite. If you're invited over it's obviously implicit you'll be met with hospitality. That's been a thing since the vikings wrote down Havamál... we have well over a millennia and a half of hospitality but do you not consider it rude to show up somewhere uninvited and expect to be handed shit?