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My niece is a FtM who married a MtF. Neither got surgery or takes hormones. They have a child who I can't imagine is going to very well adjusted. Over the last year the two of them have toned their shit down quite a bit. When they first decided to gender swap in '16, they were already extremely annoying attention whores. The cross dressing, which is what I think it really is rather than actual gender dysphoria, seemed like yet another way to put on a performance. Once they came out, not only were they louder about everything, they were far more hysterical and miserable. I never saw them happy about anything after the gender swap. They could get offended by a crosswalk signal (actually happened as the white man on the sign is both heteronormative and elevates whiteness above other races).
I'm not sure if toning things down is due to them seeing the cultural landscape changing or the realities of caring for an infant has put their dress up into context. Doubt they'll ever be normal, especially living out in Seattle, but maybe they can act human enough to attend a family gathering without making everything about themselves.