>>82463184
She's not malicious, but she, like most women, is Machiavellian in nature
>be 16, get first real job and open my first bank account
>bank gives me a credit card too (2k limit)
>mom gets high with her friend, and asks to borrow my card for a small purchase, she'll pay me back when she gets paid
>she's my mom so I instantly say okay
>she gives me $50 a few days later, "paying me back"
>next month I receive letters about overdraft fees and late fees and interest
>statement says I owe 2500 dollars
>ask my mom what she did
>"i don't know"
>doesn't even try to resolve this, I'm now saddled with cc debt at 16
I'm 39 now and I never forgave her for this, even though I paid it back within a year
Online banking was very crude back then, I couldn't check the purchases or dispute them
>Will you ever forgive her?
No. It's not about the paltry amount she stole, it's that she didn't really care that she stole from her own son.
>Do you have trauma?
massive trust issues
