>>33607203
>If so, how.
when I was a teen OP was me. But then I got really into "pick up artist" stuff then because I wanted to improve. I had success with it. Not because of the psychological manipulation of others- but for myself if I could put it that way.
>to being charismatic
one of the games to help you change then was to have a goal to talk to around 25 strangers in a public setting. This was to train you to get over your social anxiety and realize people are open to conversation given the correct circumstances and situation. It didn't matter if they were more attractive or wealthier than you. At the end of the day, everyone has their self-conscious negative aspect of themselves in their mind- you just had to remind them of it to level the playing field a bit. Eventually the game would have changed to 50 strangers, then to 100, then to 200 and so forth in a span of about a month. This made me less afraid to talk to beautiful women. Eventually, was even able to poke fun at muscular/threatening men just by making them look silly in front of attractive women. If you are socially adjusted, you could have conversations with five women at a time and able to keep their attention. Would amaze my friends when a group of three attractive girls would walk past me in a night club and I was able to converse with them and get their contact info like it was nothing.
>just practice
that's pretty much it