>>11362062
I might be wrong, but I think for most people, they have difficulty because people still think of the pleasure in terms of how they've always known it, through their penis. There's a constant comparison and expectation to ejaculate or have some type of analogous sensation. There's an expectation for a kind of feeling they're looking for, but the truth is, anal is a completely different thing, its so unlike penile stimulation that you basically have to relearn the feeling of masturbation. It gets talked about a lot, the "rewiring" process, but the descriptions never really explain it well. You have to learn how your ass can become a sex organ, the opening, walls, and prostate can all feel good, but you have to look for it. Think of it as if you're a young kid again who just discovered masturbation for the first time. You don't really know how to do it yet so you have to explore and see what you like. Concentrate on the small sensations and appreciate them, dont go hard and fast right away. Once you start noticing the small pleasurable sensations, they will slowly start to grow and over time become even more pleasurable than anything you've felt before.